I bought a Gmail invite on eBay last week. I was disappointed, but not surprised, to discover that rsteele(at)gmail(dot)com* was already taken. It is due to the popularity of the “rsteele” login that I am rsteele19(at)yahoo(dot)com, ryangarysteele(at)hotmail(dot)com and now, rgsteele(at)gmail(dot)com. And undoubtedly some poor sap is trying to sign up for Gmail right now, cursing “Someone took rgsteele!”
I do hold the coveted “rsteele” login in a few places, however. For example, I am rsteele(at)telus(dot)net. I was not the first, however. When I acquired the address way back in ’99, I signed in for the first time only to find the account full of email already. Stuff about medical conferences and cancer treatment methods. Turns out the account had recently been surrendered by its former owner, a doctor. I tracked down her new address and dutifully forwarded all messages intended for her as they trickled in over the following year.
Even though I no longer receive internet access from Telus, I have opted to retain my email address (and pay $5.30 a month for the privilege.) Why? Well, for one thing, I’ve been too lazy to change all my mailing list subscriptions and update all my accounts on various web sites that have this address on file. But more important than that, I’m afraid of someone else acquiring my old email address and reading mail that was intended for me.
Not that I receive much important mail at this address. Over 95% of the incoming mail is spam. Most of the remaining 5% is from mailing lists, with the occasional personal message. (Most of my personal communications on the Internet take place on instant messenger.) But there’s always a chance that someone could send an email to this address after someone else has taken it over, and that worries me. It’s kinda like moving out of your house and not being able to leave a forwarding address. And while the new tenant is probably an honest guy who wouldn’t ordinarily open someone else’s mail, everything is written on a postcard. He’s already started reading it before he realizes that it was not meant for him.
My email address in college was rsteele(at)uvic(dot)ca. I had to abandon that address after I graduated. I made an effort to update everyone with my new address, but it is likely I missed some people. Has the address been reassigned to someone else? Has someone else received an email that was meant for me? Why don’t email providers tell you how soon they will reassign an email address after you abandon it?
Am I being paranoid? Should I cancel my telus.net address? Am I asking too many rhetorical questions?
If there’s any lesson in this, I guess it’s to realize that there are some email addresses you can’t keep forever, and there are some that you don’t want to. And if you think you might not be keeping an address for long, you might want to make it one that someone else is unlikely to choose.
I’m optimistic that I will have my Hotmail, Yahoo and Gmail addresses until I die. Feel free to email me at any of them.
* Email addresses in this post have been munged to thwart the nasty spammers.